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Low mood

Feeling flat, tearful or irritable, with less patience and less enjoyment than usual.

What it feels like

Feeling low, tearful, irritable or flat, with less motivation and less enjoyment in things you usually like. Some women describe mood swings that feel out of character, or a shorter fuse than they have ever had.

Why it happens

Falling and fluctuating oestrogen affects mood directly. Testosterone, which women produce in smaller amounts from the ovaries and adrenal glands, also contributes to mood, energy and drive, and it declines with age. Poor sleep from night sweats, and the pressures many women are carrying in their forties and fifties, make everything harder to absorb.

Mood change is not automatically hormonal. Thyroid problems, low iron or vitamin B12, alcohol, chronic pain and depression can all produce the same picture, which is why a proper assessment matters.

What can help

  • HRT can help low mood that is linked to menopause.
  • Testosterone may be considered if mood, drive and energy have not improved on oestrogen and progesterone. Your doctor will explain what the evidence does and does not support.
  • Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is effective for low mood and anxiety during menopause.
  • Where depression is diagnosed, it is treated in its own right. HRT is not a substitute for depression treatment.

When to see a doctor

Book a consultation if low mood has lasted more than a couple of weeks or is affecting your daily life. If you are having thoughts of harming yourself, contact your GP urgently, call NHS 111, or call Samaritans on 116 123. In an emergency, call 999.

Low mood that comes and goes with your cycle in your 40s is a recognised feature of perimenopause, and is often treated with antidepressants when hormones are the cause. Our HRT UK guide explains what the guidelines say and how to get treatment.

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FAQs

Questions about low mood, answered.

Can perimenopause cause low mood?

Yes. Changing hormone levels can affect mood directly, and broken sleep, night sweats and the pressures many women carry at this stage all add to it.

Is it oestrogen or testosterone?

It can be either, and often both. Oestrogen is usually addressed first. If your mood has not lifted on oestrogen and progesterone, your doctor will look at whether testosterone is part of the picture.

Is HRT a treatment for depression?

No. HRT can help low mood linked to menopause, but depression needs to be assessed and treated in its own right. Your doctor will help you work out what is going on rather than assuming it is hormonal.

What if I am struggling right now?

If you are having thoughts of harming yourself, contact your GP urgently, call NHS 111, or call Samaritans on 116 123. In an emergency, call 999.

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